CPTSD/Disorders of extreme stress not otherwise specified

I got asked by the mental health team today how I know my dad has NPD.

He has a pervasive pattern of all 9 NPD traits and said if he wasn’t on medication he would have murdered someone by now.

But he also has ADHD.

Yeah, they won’t understand. It’s a rare condition that affects 0.6% of men. I’ve dated “narcissists”, I’ve dated “borderlines”, both have ADHD – just not anyone with actual NPD. Two different things. People with real NPD are fragile and vulnerable. They’re obsessed with their self image. Finding the ideal love. Expecting you to meet their needs. Science won’t understand that.

Most narcissists are neurodivergent.

NPD is a personality disorder that arises from childhood trauma.

But here’s the part what people don’t understand.

Science isn’t ready for that. Real NPD is PTSD. BPD is PTSD.

Why do you think CPTSD displays both NPD/BPD traits during a crisis or spiritual awakening whenever the unconscious tries to meet the conscious?

Because you’re integrating into your core self.

What they don’t tell you is you either fully transform into a narcissist – I.e what happened to Adolf Hitler.

Or you fully transform into an empath. Carl Jung.

I carefully analysed my father growing up and he’s transforming into an empath. It’s great fun turning narcissistic people into empaths.

I just hate how my life work has ultimately destroyed me.

Because I am too a narcissist (my ADHD) , but I don’t have NPD.

I am also an empath, but I don’t have BPD.

That’s CPTSD.

Science isn’t ready for it.

That’s why it looks eerily similar to both BPD and NPD.

Trust the process.

ADHD and NPD is a rare combination. ADHD and narcissism is common.

How do people think I can talk to narcissists?

It’s called experience. Survival skills.

My recent ex doesn’t have NPD. He’s a narcissist because of his ADHD. It’s simple science. But so am I. It’s our ADHD.

I just have CPTSD alongside it, which I never wanted.

But did you know, many INFJ’s are born with ADHD?

Yeah.

Freaky eh?